How Do You Know
****

Written and Directed by James L. Brooks

Cast
Reece Witherspoon as Lisa
Paul Rudd as George
Owen Wilson as Matty
Jack Nicholson as Charles
Kathryn Hahn as Annie

Rated PG-13 for sexual content and some strong language

     
Reviewed by Lamar Kukuk
1/7/11

First, let me say I really liked this movie.  As we sometimes do, I connected with it on an emotional level wholly separate from any sense of whether it was all that well done.   Romantic Comedies may be the most subjective of all movie genres because they tend to rise and fall on two things:  1)do you like the central couple enough to root for them to end up together, and 2)if so, does the screenplay manipulate events so shamefully and artlessly that you come to despise it just as much as you like the couple.  If the movie passes both tests, odds are you'll feel like it's better than it really is.  If it fails, you'll probably hate it with a passion exceeding its actual issues.  Luckily for How Do You Know, the latest from hot and cold genre icon James L. Brooks, there aren't many actors I like better in this genre than Reece Witherspoon and Paul Rudd.  And while Brooks' structure is meandering and his understanding of the worlds in which he's set his story less than complete, he has written them great characters to play and handed them his usual first-rate quotable dialog.  I can see how How Do You Know would be an easy movie to dislike were you so inclined, but I was carried along quite happily by those characters, and I really hoped they'd end up together.  It's no As Good As It Gets, but it's a first-rate romantic comedy for the two reasons stated above.  Did I mention I really liked it?

Lisa (Reece Witherspoon) was a star of the US Women's Softball team.  But as it does with all athletes, age has caught up to her, the heartless new coach (Dean Norris) has cut her, and she's left with no clue how to get on with her life.  One option presents itself in the person of Washington Nationals pitcher Matty (Owen Wilson), who shares another in a long line of one-night stands with her and then falls in love.  But there's another guy, George (Paul Rudd), with whom she shared a disastrous blind date that seemed pretty good to him, perhaps because the rest of his life is going so badly.  Under investigation for wrongdoing done at his company unbeknownst to him by his sneaky father Charles (Jack Nicholson), George is instantly smitten and rewarded by fate that Matty and Charles happen to live in the same building, so he and Lisa keep running into each other.  She wants to make a go of things with the wealthy baseball star, but he's got no clue how to settle down and is as utterly shallow as he is fun to be around.  The kind, romantic George seems like a better fit, but there is the matter of the federal investigation, and the fact that his going to prison for a few years may be the only thing that can keep his father from spending the rest of his life behind bars.

Characters like George almost always end up as the “nice but not man enough to get the girl” runner-up in romantic comedies while I sit on the sidelines and protest the injustice.  And I'm a huge Paul Rudd guy, as anyone who's read a review of one of his movies on this site undoubtedly knows.  So, while it's clear from the get-go that Matty's out of luck, I kept waiting for the story to give George the shiv as well and leave all parties to go their separate ways sad but wiser, actually a good thing because it generates some genuine suspense where there'd ordinarily be none.  Witherspoon hasn't found as many good roles as I'd have wished for her post-Legally Blonde, but when she's on her game, she has the rare gift of seeming not just adorable but also like someone you'd genuinely want to get to know.  And Lisa is a great character for her precisely because there's a lot of meat to her, an insecurity desperately masked with the illusion of being completely self-confident.  I loved the way almost every inch of her house was covered with motivational sticky notes, and how Brooks never once comments upon it, letting the simple fact of their presence underscore that part of Witherspoon's performance that's about Lisa knowing how to put on a show for the people who expect her to be strong as opposed to actually feeling that strength herself.  I think the single most important thing for romcom characters is for them to feel incomplete and just a little bit sad, because we have to feel like they NEED this relationship or else it's merely nice if they get together rather than essential.  Brooks and his actors do that quite well here, and it carries the day.

And, of course, you get the usual Brooks feast of quality dialog and well-observed moments.  Of particular note are a speech Lisa gives about how she suspects everyone who says they're in love is really pretending, George's lovely explanation of why he finds Play Doh inspirational, and an absolutely beautiful scene where the couple and Charles end up at George's secretary Annie's (Kathryn Hahn) bedside in the maternity ward while her boyfriend (Lenny Venito, walking off with his single scene) proposes.  These are mostly stock roles for Wilson and Nicholson, but they do solid jobs with them, and there are memorable small parts for Mark Lynn-Baker and Tony Shalhoub (who Monk fans will be pretty amused to see playing a psychiatrist).

It's not all perfect, of course:  Brooks sets half his story in a world of bat-and-ball sports he doesn't seem to know that much about, and it's pretty much impossible to buy either Lisa or Matty as a real professional in their respective fields (the woman takes her eye off the ball when her cell phone rings so he can wring a cheap laugh out of her getting hit in the face.  Ouch in every possible way).  Brooks really needed to hold out for a better take of a key line near the end, which Rudd, as much as I love him, delivers horribly.  And, yes, Lisa and George do ultimately feel more like life preservers for each other than true soulmates, but they're two people who REALLY need life preservers, so I'm not so much complaining about that as seeing where others might find it to be an issue.

You've probably noticed that I've done a fair amount of apologizing for How Do You Know, and it is one of those movies I clearly understand isn't as good as the time I had watching it.  As I said, most romantic comedies come down to the quality of the stars, their characters and the script's ability to stay out of their way.  And in that regard, How Do You Know is three for three, and in the process made me unreasonably happy.  Your results may vary.

     
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